Sunday, May 22, 2011

Ok - so it has been a while "again"! I do have more stories to tell. I need to hurry and tell them before the "olds timer" gets worse. Again, I love my girls. I love to watch them and the choices they make. I don't think I could be any prouder. My Heavenly Father truly has blessed me beyond my capacity to say.

Well telling about Cassie and Alex in the last blog was met with mixed reaction ~ all culminating with tell us more. So here goes!!!

Vern and I bought our first house and moved into it just 3 days before Chelsea was born. I will always have a soft spot for that house. It was the perfect house for 3 very small girls. We lived at the end of the cul-de-sac that was filled (as noted in my last post) with 26 young children all very close in age. What an awesome experience for kids! Since our house was right at the end of cul-de-sac we were able to go and sit in the front yard and see "everything and everyone". Cassie and Alex learned to ride bikes, Chelsea learned to toddle and be a part of it all. What a fabulous baby. I called Chelsea my "angel baby". She was born and went home with Dad before I left the hospital. She slept 6 hours that first night home and never had a time when she didn't sleep through the night. She came with a love for music!!! As a baby even, I could put Chelsea in front of a Disney musical and she would sit for hours watching the whole movie. Her favorite was the real Cinderella with Leslie Ann Warren. By the time Chelsea was 3 she was entertaining any who would let her with her singing. She learned "all" the words to "10 Minutes Ago I Met You". Not just Cinderella's part, but Prince Charming's part as well. Then she would sing it for all of us. It was so funny because she would change her voice on the Prince part so she could sound more like a guy. She entertained us with songs and dance moves from Grease, Little Mermaid, Cinderella, "I'm a Little Tea Pot", "Once There Was a Snowman" (when it melted, she ended with 'oops, I'm a puddle'), rap version of 5 Monkeys jumping on a bed, and of course the song she was most famous for "I Went Down To Grandpas Farm, Billy Goat Chased me Round The Barn". Grandpa called her his Bumpity Bump Girl. I say Chelsea got her love for singing from watching Grandpa Lloyd and Grandma Karen from Heaven. Then when she was ready for bed, the easiest way for me to get her to sleep was to sing primary songs to her. I did this for as long as I can remember. I'd lay in bed with all of them and sing softly. I'm not the best singer, but they all seemed ok with it. (I did sing to all of you! Not just Chelsea). I am so proud to say that she is going to graduate from college soon with a degree in music. I love to hear Chelsea sing and pray that she will "always" share that very special gift that came from Heavenly Father.

My favorite memories with my girls are driving in the car, like when we would go to the cabin or on vacation, with the radio turned up or our favorite CD in and we would all sing along. Leann Rimes was one of our most favorite CDs. We would all sing along at the top of our lungs. And, I loved it when Alex got good enough on the piano to play the hymns or some other fun songs. Alex would play and the others would sing along. I loved those times. I think I miss them most!!!! I had to really push for Katie to get in and sing with her sister. She always felt like she couldn't compete with them. But now, Katie has finished her first year of college and voice lessons and I think she has finally realized that she has an amazing soprano voice. I hope she continues to sing FOREVER!!! I may not be the best, but I truly believe that music can make all your troubles go away. Life without music for me would not be worth living. I pray that my girls (all of them with their amazing talents) keep music in their life.

The oldest girl in the neighbor hood was Valerie Bell... They lived right next door and so our front yards were joined together. She would love to sit and hold Chelsea and do all of the other girls in the neighbor hoods hair. She even did the boys (her little brothers were about the only boys in the cul-de-sac). She would do their hair all the time. While this was an adorable thing to watch... it turned out to be our worst nightmare!!! Can you say head lice? Oh it was awful.... I had three little girls with long, thick, luxurious, beautiful hair!! I was not about to cut it off. I quickly bought some nit shampoo, stuffed all of their favorite animals into plastic bags and into the freezer, washed and rewashed pillows and bedding, bought sprays and chemicals for all of the furniture, and "picked" each strand of hair for hours and days and weeks to be sure that we were completely rid of those nasty little bugs. And every Mom in the neighborhood was doing the same. But I freaked, more than any of the other Moms.... My poor girls they had to endure the most anal Mom lectures in the world... do not share brushes, no more is Valarie to do your hair, do not share hats, barrettes, hair bands, combs or brushes!!!! I'm really sorry they had to endure it, but I'm not sorry I was that anal.... cause all the other families in the neighborhood went through head lice TWICE. But not us!!! Once was enough for my very bright girls to learn. :)


I love my girls! We had so much fun in that house on Lena. Vern played softball and basketball with the ward. We loved to go to the games and watch him. I even played a little softball with the ward. We spent a lot of time at the baseball field between Dad and I both playing. Oh those were good times. It has been really fun remembering the times I had with my girls. I have so many more stories to tell. I will have to dedicate another blog to more stories. :) Just know this!!!! I love my family.






Saturday, February 26, 2011

Cassie and Alex

So lately I have been thinking alot about being mom to 5 of the most amazing young women I have ever known.!!! I don't take credit, they truly came that way from our Father in Heaven.
That being said, I have thought a lot about when they were younger and how much I miss having them around. Cassie and Alex have become Moms themselves and I watch and admire them both. They are different in their approaches, yet very similar. They are both so loving and gentle. I really don't know where they learned that. hahaha Actually, it causes me to ponder on when they were babies. Oh how I loved to hold them and rock them before bed. When Cassie was a baby (she was so strong), her favorite place to be was curled up in the crook of my neck. She would put her feet on my tummy and push up until her head would rest right there in the crook. Then she would cuddle close and just go to sleep. I would let her stay there for as long as I could. Alex was so different! She didn't really like to cuddle that much as a baby. So I had to steal moments of cuddle with her. But she did love to sit on my lap facing out so she could see - (can you say Jack?) and rock in the rocking chair. I'd turn on music or sing to her and she was happy. Vern traveled a lot trading videos when they were both little. so many times it was just the 3 of us. I quickly learned that Mom always has a big enough lap for 2, 3, or 4. We would dance and play and take walks and just be together as much as we could.
I worked full-time while they were little and so I wasn't one of those Moms who put their kids to bed at 6:30 or 7:00. It was always more like 9:00 or 9:30. I tried to keep them with me as long as I could. Otherwise I would never see them. I would go to bed around 10:30 and get up again at 4:00 every week day in order to clean my house. 4:00 in the morning is the best time to clean house!!! No one else is around and it is quiet. I would mop my floor, scrup my toilets, and just feel great. It meant I didn't have to do those things when the kids were up and wanting to play. I wasn't one of those Moms who did hair... my Mom used to do mine in ringlets and I "hated" sitting there while she did my hair. Oh and the invention of curling irons was fantastic. Especially during the 80's --- I could curl their bangs in just a few minutes and whalaa we had a hair do. :-) I did learn how to do french braids, knots and fish tails. Once in a while I'd do that for church... but never anything to extreme. They were still the prettiest girls in the cul-de-sac!!! And there were 26 kids mostly girls in that one cul-de-sac!!!!! Vern learned to do the french braids better than I did. So he would do them more often. I would go to work as early as possible so that I could get home early. Many times they were all still in bed when I left. So Vern had to do their hair and get them ready for the day. He came up with some pretty "crazy" amazing hair dos sometimes. What a great dad!!
Well, I am going to have to finish this post later. Taylor has a recital... and I have so many more memories to tell about Chelsea, Katie, and Taylor. Plus more about Cassie and Alex. I can't believe how writing it down makes the memories come flooding back.. :) Stay tuned for more.
Know this - I LOVE YOU ALL
Mom!

New Phone again - funny

So the week after I got my new phone, I was informed by ADP that I would be getting a "new phone". ADP is getting me a black berry. I just ordered it yesterday. I really hate the idea of carrying two phones around. I have now turned into such a nerd.

I'll probably carry both for awhile... but if I find that I don't use either very often, I may have a nice (fun) android up for grabs. :) We will have to see how it goes.

I just thought it was funny..... hahahaha

Saturday, February 5, 2011

New phones!!!

So for months now I have been trying to reduce our T-Mobile bill. I have called them and they keep telling me this is the best plan for you. It wouldn't make sense to go to a different plan. I have tried bartering with them and everything. I can't just discontinue using them. It is my "best" connection to my kids who live away. :) And, Vern uses it for business "alot". But I have told Vern "no new phones" until we can get out of contract and find a better deal somewhere. Well the other day he went shopping without me. Go figure! And he brought home two new Android phones! I'm like..."WHAT THE HECK"!!!!!
I was only mad for a minute though. My sweet husband proceeded to explain that they only cost $10 each after rebate and we get unlimited Wi-Fi. Our minutes are no longer "unlimited" but are still at 3000 which we never meet and we still have "unlimited" text messaging. The BEST part --- he reduced our bill by $100 a month! Man I LOVE my new phone. :-) So fun!!!

Oh and I love my sweet husband too. (Sorry for getting mad.)

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

2010

So it was a very strange year for the Vern Houst family.... we had good and we had bad! We lost both fathers this year. Hank passed in February and my dad (Keith) passed in August. We had some family affirmations that took place. Every family has to go through these things in order to grow together and learn to love and respect each other. I am truly grateful for the Atonement and the power of forgiveness. Vern and I actually got to go on a mini vacation (but big) for the first time ever. I can't tell you how fun that was. We went to New York and experienced some fabulous bonding moments together. Thanks to Jeff for providing us a place to stay and directions for a fabulous time.

We also had two beautiful new grandsons added to the family.... and a fabulous new son in law. We are loving having Stu in the family. He fits right in with my list of perfect sons in law. And oh how we love Koston and Jack. I was blessed to get to go to Kentucky for a few days in July to bond with Riley a little and then again in August when Koston was born. That was a fabulous 10 days of bonding. I had so much fun. Then Jack was born and Alex and Jon are so nice to let me come and do plenty of bonding with him. I love babies!!!! In October Vern, Taylor, and I went back to Kentucky for Koston's blessing and it was a marvelous time. Then Jack was blessed in November over Thanksgiving while Chelsea and Stu were here.

Grandma moved in with us in November. We have really enjoyed having her with us. (Way better than in an apartment next door to the recent Bountiful Murder!!!!!) I think she enjoyed being here for Christmas... I hate to think about her spending it alone.... I'm glad she didn't have to.

Christmas was a little wierd! Both Cassie/Scott family and Chelsea/Stu families were with the in-laws for Christmas this year. It really made for a quiet Christmas at our place. I think I'll just focus on being grateful the ones that were here!!!! Alex/Jon/Jack along with Katie and Taylor helped us keep the "joy". Thanks!

I love you and all... here's hoping for a fabulous 2011 with more good then bad!!!!